Marriage

Marriage is not about love only.Its about responsibility and patient.Before I got married, I have always imagined something sweet and lovely.Perhaps for the first two years, the couple still in romantic mood and everything seems perfect but after few years of living together, his or her partner change behavior due to a particular reason such as work responsibility (lots of work load) and then his or her partner become stubborn and everything seems wrong. Normally, women is always emotionally unstable because of the hormones. Based from my reading, woman is the one who always asking for a divorce.In my opinion, the husband should not divorce the wife unless the wife has done something dangerous to the husband such as trying to hurt the husband with a knife which may lead to physical abuse.Before divorcing a wife, please discuss with a friend, ulama', and family.After series of discussion, then a husband will make a decision whether to  divorce or to forgive. 

I understand that marriage life is not easy but whatever happens we can ask a guidance from Allah.Pray to Allah and do tahajjud.

I have always thinking why our parent and grandparent can be together forever  although they are living in a small house, not so rich but yet understanding each other and patient.

Sometimes I agree with Malay proverb, sayang isteri tinggal-tinggalkan......because when we are away from each other, we start missing our beautiful moments together.

To my husband who may read this article, I would like to say I love you and I pray to Allah our marriage will be blessed till Jannah. Please be patient with your wife as sometimes woman is known to be emotionally unstable 😆.